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Butler

DM Estate Staffing
New York, NY Full Time
POSTED ON 4/9/2025
AVAILABLE BEFORE 6/9/2025

Overview

Position: Full-Time Butler (Temp-to-Perm)Location: New York City (Primary Residence), with travel to Aspen and the HamptonsSchedule: Monday–Friday in NYC, with flexibility during travel periodsCompensation: $150K DOE | Benefits includedStart: ASAP | 3-month temp trial, with the goal of transitioning to permanent

A warm, dynamic family based in New York City is seeking a highly professional, service-oriented Butler with light driving responsibilities to support their day-to-day lifestyle, events, travel, and home operations. The role is full-time, temp-to-perm, with guaranteed hours and significant long-term growth potential for the right candidate.

This is an ideal opportunity for someone with a strong hospitality background, excellent communication skills, a discreet presence, and a natural ability to “read the room” while remaining highly attentive to details. Travel to Aspen and the Hamptons is required, and the role is deeply rooted in thoughtful service, family-friendly flexibility, and polished professionalism.

Schedule & Travel Expectations:

  • NYC Base Schedule: Monday–Friday, starting at 7 AM (school drop-offs), generally ending by 4–5 PM
    • Flexibility required on event days (occasional evenings)
  • Aspen: During holidays (2–3 trips per winter, 1–2 weeks per trip)
  • Hamptons: Month of August and occasional summer weeks (shared staff housing provided)
  • When traveling: Flexibility for 7-day coverage with compensatory days off upon return

Key Responsibilities:

Hospitality & Event Support

  • Set the tone and aesthetic for regular entertaining and special events
  • Coordinate seamlessly with the Chef and Housekeeping staff (e.g., dinnerware selection, lighting, ambiance)
  • Be present and available during events—quietly overseeing, anticipating needs, assisting with service
  • Recommend wines and beverages to pair with meals
  • Assist with welcoming and orienting guests—ensure a warm, professional, and polished experience

Household Coordination

  • Support communication between household staff and Principal (using WhatsApp, Google Docs, Gmail)
  • Oversee daily household checklists and maintenance routines
  • Communicate with and manage outside vendors and service providers (e.g., in Aspen and Hamptons)
  • Conduct walkthroughs and monitor home cleanliness, safety, and presentation
  • Coordinate closely with the Director of Residences on logistics, updates, and special requests

Family Support

  • Drive the children to school or activities as needed 
  • Help engage children in age-appropriate, light participation (e.g., “Want to help set the table?”)
  • Occasionally assist with errands, pick-ups, or support nannies
  • Assist with packing, unpacking, and organizing for family travel
  • Manage snack prep, travel arrangements, and on-the-ground details for family trips

General Duties

  • Maintain and track household inventory, including supplies, toiletries, and pantry items
  • Manage wine inventory and cellar organization
  • Make reservations and coordinate dining or outing logistics
  • Provide high-end hospitality service (dinner service, bartending, etc.)
  • Coordinate closely with property managers in Aspen and the Hamptons for seasonal prep, repairs, and access
  • Ensure all household staff are supported and checklists are completed
  • Offer light driving as needed (errands, pick-ups)

Qualifications:

  • 5 years of experience in private service and hospitality or front-of-house roles
  • Background in butlering or high-end event service strongly preferred
  • Must be NYC-based and legally authorized to work in the U.S.
  • Valid driver’s license and clean driving record
  • Excellent communication skills; comfortable with tech (Google Workspace, messaging apps, and Savant)
  • Highly organized, polished, discreet, and emotionally intelligent
  • Flexible and adaptable, with a positive, "always-on" mindset
  • Experience working around children and a natural, friendly rapport with them
  • Able to travel and live on-site during trips (private accommodations provided)

Compensation & Benefits:

  • Salary: $150K DOE
  • Full benefits package
  • Private accommodations provided during travel
  • Temp trial with intent to hire permanently

 

Salary : $150,000

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